bietan_jarrai (bietan_jarrai) wrote in eds_hurt_others,
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Hi, Im new

Im new to the community, I wanted to say Hi and leave some writing here.

I got on a fight with my bf last saturday cos, while I was getting ready to go out, I kept coming back to him to ask if that or that t-shirt make me fatter/thinner or if my make up was ok (am im wearing too much mascara? should I....?). He was fed up of me needing the opinion of others about everysingle bit concerning to my look. He said, hey you always look great for me so please just try and get your own opinion. I ended without makeup and not feeling really secure about myself.

Another everyday issue is food. I keep on asking him: can i eat this? have I eaten too much? do i look thinner?

I think ppl with EDs can get really annoying sometimes and i think is natural that "normal" ppl get fed up sometimes and just give up on us.
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yea, the people around us are going to get annoyed, and it sucks, i know. does your boyfriend know about your ED? he might be more understanding if he did, and if you dont want to tell him maybe you should try to explain to him that you feel insecure and just need his support. if you dont communicate though, the relationship is going to start getting bad. but hey atleast he told you that you aways look good to him!
he does know about the ED. he thinks Im better know and he encourages me to pay attention to MY opinions not to everyone else's, but its difficult, so i always go to him for opinion and he gets fed up. he says, dress as you want, eat as you want and dont care about other ppl. I wish i could